The pronouncement startles Autor so much, he nearly spills his drink.

"Yes," he responds, just as quietly. He stares at his hands. "You did."

So, now what do I say? 'You're absolved; all is well, go live with your girlfriend cum mediator?'

He sighs. I wonder if the person being apologized to has some responsibility to accept amends as well. It's almost like Lohengrin is laughing at him. "Still, I provoked you."